People often find it easy to find relationships, but eventually see how hard it is to maintain a relationship. I hear people often say they wish they had a boyfriend/girlfriend because they see the “positive” out of it all…the smiles and the big hugs, the kisses and they hear the giggles. Relationships are not impossible, but they do take work and time and effort. A good relationship isn’t something that just happens and stays that way…they take two people who sincerely love each other and want to be with each other. Like my mom always told me, “You two will always love each other, but you may not like each other all the time.” Now in order to understand what she’s saying one must understand the difference between love and like. Love is unconditional and will never fade no matter what the circumstance may be, but like is conditional lol.
There must be love in both people’s hearts in order to want to build what is torn down. You cannot expect to get a happy ending without sweating a little bit.